Wednesday, March 25, 2009

A Rainy Spring Break Week

It's pretty typical; if it's Spring Break in Oregon, most likely it will be raining. Lucky for us Oregonians, we've learned not to let a little rain dampen our spirits.

Actually, one of the things about being retired and especially having no school connections is that things like holidays and spring breaks don't really register. Except that my daughter is a substitute teacher and often works during the school year. That being the case, I went to visit her and her hubby on Sunday afternoon, returning Tuesday night.

Kristin is a volunteer with Whale Watch Spoken Here and was scheduled to do interpretive work at a couple sites today and next Saturday. My sister who now lives in Medford came over with a friend who was visiting from Minnesota and we wandered out to some headlands to try to spot some of the migrating whales.

Unfortunately, the water was quite choppy and you couldn't really see any spouts from whales. Plus it was rainy and windy. But I did learn some things. For instance, did you know that some whales can stay submerged for up to two hours before coming up? Others are only 20 minutes (I think Humpbacks) or 30 minutes (Grays). This explains why, unless they are playing and frolicking, you can see a spout and then not ever see another -- in 20 minutes they can be long gone out of sight.

We did, however, see and hear lots of sea lions -- Stellar and California -- and harbor seals. Kristin's friend, who works with her at Oregon State Parks, told her the juvenile elephant seals were on a certain beach so we were able to go and see them. This is apparently the farthest north elephant seals live and it is rare to have very many pups. Because the storms were mild this year, they had a pretty good crop. So it was interesting to see these creatures. The younger seals didn't look that different from other seals, except larger. They didn't yet have the long noses for which the species was named.

I am so proud of my daughter and her husband. They have a simple life with a large garden. They enjoy cooking a variety of ethnic dishes. Ryan makes his own really good beer and Kristin does a beautiful job knitting. They have done some things to make their home much more cozy and suitable for them, doing most of the work themselves. They are very much what we in the Portland area would call "urban homesteaders." Most importantly, they are happy. They have two cute dogs and Charlie enjoys visiting his "cousins". They live the life they want to live without worrying about how other people might perceive them. I think they are pretty authentic and I enjoy spending time with them, though it makes me regret some of the choices I have made in my own life. But tomorrow is another day . . .

Just one little note: I have sent out proposals for my book to four agents who have requested it (one of whom also works for a publishing house). I have no idea how long it will take to hear back from anyone. But I am very hopeful that I will find an agent and eventually a publisher to take on my book project. In the meantime, I continue to write and edit and work on the book. It's been healing and helpful for me to do it.

travelinlady

3 comments:

Pennie said...

Your daughter and her husband's homestead sounds delightful.

So good of you to share your visit. We can all use a little reminder of the merits of simplicity and its close cousin, authenticity.

Hope your book project takes flight soon!

Anonymous said...

Hi:

I've followed your entire journey, for a number of reasons.

I'm glad you're still posting, and I wish you well. I enjoy reading your new experiences.

Our politics and religious beliefs differ, but we are both dog-lovers!

My wife of 30 years and I are contemplating an RV trip such as yours. I am blessed that she is here to share such an adventure with me, and that we can plan it together. My heart aches for you, in that you lost your life-mate.

We share a number of other similarities and differences, but my wife and I would enjoy sharing a cup of coffee with you and chatting.

I'm impressed with your courage and heart.

Keep it up!

Looking forward to your book!

We're about an hour south of you.

Best Wishes!

Bill

TravelinLady said...

Hi, Bill! Thank you and your wife for following my journey through my blog, even after I've returned home. We could probably arrange a time for a chat. You can contact me through my email: moreat5@hotmail.com.